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How to Shake Hands With “The Magic Handshake”

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All public figures – particularly politicians, need to understand that the purpose of a handshake in front of an audience or a camera, is to allow the public to take a reading – to gage the nature of the relationship between the politician and the person he or she is shaking hands with.  This rule holds whether a politician is shaking the hand of a world leader or an ordinary citizen at a lunch counter.

Clearly George W. Bush did not understand this concept.  As President, he apparently thought shaking hands in front of a camera, was an opportunity to showcase his smile for posterity.  These are not anecdotal photographs.  On the Getty Images website, there are literally hundreds of photos of President Bush in this same awkward position.

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The Power of Silly

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Dave walks to the elevator on his floor, presses the DOWN button, steps back about six feet, relaxes into his comfortable asymmetrical posture and waits. Again he thinks of Joanne laughing on the Spanish coast and feels his face reflexively pull into his good Dominant Face.  He thinks of the words Money Memory and he starts to break into a smile, but he suppresses it.

Ding.

The elevator door opens revealing two boys and a girl, all in their late teens.  They move to the left side of the elevator.  Dave quickly looks from one to the other as he gets on.  “I appreciate you three coming by to get me.  I hope it wasn’t very far out of your way.”

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Your First Impression Starts with Your Face

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DOMINANT FACEYour Dominant Face is the face you wear when you don’t think you are communicating with anyone.

[Our use of the term “dominant,” relates to its definition “predominant,” rather than the “controlling or exerting authority,” definition.  Your Dominant Face is the facial expression that you “wear” more than any other when you are not communicating with others.]
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Charisma in the Jungle

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Why everyone is wrong about charisma.


Because she was a content,distance away, Jane couldn’t quite tell what David was doing as he sat beside that termite mound sticking a blade of grass into it, and then putting the blade in his mouth.  After he left, she approached the mound, stuck a blade of grass into it and saw that a bunch of termites grabbed onto the blade with their mandibles… David was using the blade as a tool to capture the termites.  Not long after this, Jane saw David and other chimpanzees stripping the leaves off of twigs, sticking the twigs in termite mounds and eating the termites off the twigs.  The chimps – she realized, were creating tools to make their foraging for termites more efficient

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